Our souls long to break free from any restrictions and live a more soul-aligned life. As energy beings, we want to be in flow with life & the Universe and march to the beat of our own drum. We desire to live in a way that honors our uniqueness and brings forth our soul gifts. Our souls wish to rejoice here on Earth. Deep down we know that it’s a privilege to be incarnated on this physical plane. It’s an opportunity we do not want to waste.
Using our time here wisely
We want to use this time we have been given wisely. It’s a chance to grow & expand and uncover our unique soul gifts. When we feel tingly with excitement about what we want to work on or bring to life, it’s our Divine self flooding us with inspiration. It’s a calling. A calling to pursue our passions, purpose, and mission.
If you feel the pull of something greater than yourself, the need to change something in your life, and the call to embark on an unknown path, listen closely to these Divine nudges. Don’t let others who want to stay in their old and familiar lives discourage you from following that calling.
The courage to overcome your old self
Living a more soul-aligned life takes courage. The courage to unravel and overcome your old self. All conditioning, programming, your trauma, your own dysfunctional behaviors, trauma responses, coping mechanisms & stuck emotions must be released. When you transcend your limited self, you rise into your Divine self, your true & most authentic version. It’s like being born again and becoming truly alive.
You are not only breaking free from an old identity, but also from an old environment. All the things you used to like and all the ways you used to do things will change. This new paradigm – this shift in consciousness, the rise into a New Earth – requires a new way of being, doing and living.
This change is a change that starts within ourselves. As we heal, we stop perpetuating old cycles of outdated belief systems and harmful behaviors. We let go of our programming and conditioning. It’s a purification on all levels through which we are able to ascend and bring forth our Divine self.
You will trigger others
As you begin to walk the path of soul expansion, self-mastery & ascension, there will be people in your life who will feel triggered by it. Maybe even your close friends or family. Just by being yourself, following your intuition, and having the courage to change your life, will you make them feel uncomfortable.
They will project their own shadows onto you and try to gaslight you into giving up on this journey, just so they can feel better and stay in their old life without changing anything.
Be ok with triggering others. Know that it’s part of the journey. It comes with the territory, so to speak.
Other people’s expectations
There will always be people who place expectations and conditions on you. How you should live. Which role you should fulfill. And if you don’t behave the way they want you to, they won’t accept or love you. This is because we still live in a time of conditional love.
What these people are unconsciously asking you to do is to dim your light, deny your true Self, wear a mask, stay small and continue to stay in dysfunctional relationship dynamics and on an outdated timeline. This is toxic behavior. Breaking free also means freeing yourself from other people’s expectations, from what they think of you and what they say about you.
Being aware of toxic behaviors
Be aware of people who play the victim and want to make you feel guilty for trying to connect with your soul’s truth. It’s like they are committed to misunderstanding you and making you the villain in their story. They blame you because it makes them feel better or safer in their old life.
This can especially happen in dysfunctional families when the black sheep begins to break free from the toxic family situation. Black sheep are often the ones who have the highest frequency in the family and are incarnated with the mission to bring healing to the family line.
Once they begin their healing journey, these generational curse breakers are then “promoted” from the black sheep who is just the odd one out to the scapegoat of the family who becomes a “threat” to the family system.
Some family members will accuse the person who dares to pursue their dreams and healing of destroying the family, when in reality they only destroy the image or illusion of a perfect family. They do not break anything. It was already broken, only held together by the glue of denial.
A hard truth to hear
On this journey, we leave people behind who are no longer in energetic alignment with us. If they don’t take responsibility for their healing, they will no longer be a vibrational match to us. These are people who are either unwilling to take accountability or are even denying that they carry wounds and trauma.
I know it’s not easy to hear, but these people are not meant to stay in your life. That doesn’t mean it’s forever, but for now. The Divine is removing them from your field for a reason. They siphon your energy. They lack accountability for their own unhappiness, woundedness & toxicity and keep you stuck in old loops. Let them go with love and let them be, without judgment. If they begin to change and heal, they may return to your life.
True soul connections
As you begin to raise your vibrational frequency and truly love yourself, your light and authenticity will attract people into your life that you can connect with on a deep soul level. These are people who also have not shied away from the inner work and are now operating from an open heart center. You will know when you encounter one of these connections.
True soul connections do not hold you back or try to control you. They respect you, cheer you on, and walk alongside you. These connections are deep and meaningful. They cannot be forced. You align energetically. You become a vibrational match to them. Let true soul connections naturally enter your life.
Faith & trust as your companions
Rise above the challenges, difficulties, obstacles and drama in your life. Focus on your path. Leave the heaviness behind.
I always say that life is supposed to feel effortless. When you follow your calling, you also invite lightness into your life. Of course, there will be this in-between state where you have released your old life, but your new life has not yet materialized in the physical. Hold your vision energetically and you will magnetize it. Keep the faith. Trust in the Divine that everything happens for your highest good.
Sacred solitude & the courage to stay true to yourself
When you commit to walking the path of light, you become a beacon of authenticity and Divine love. The people with whom you are meant to walk this path will appear at the right time. Until then, embrace your sacred solitude, this hermit mode, even if you feel lonely at times. This is where the magic, the introspection and the healing happens.
The courage to break free must be followed by the courage to remain true to yourself, to stay curious about your inner world & your personal transformation, and to pursue your passions & what lights you up.
Shifting into a new state of being
Global change is possible when more people realize that this change that many of us want to see in the world actually has to start within ourselves first. A collective healing journey is needed in which more people take responsibility for their past, their wounds and triggers. As more people dare to break free from their limitations and live a more soul-aligned life, they will naturally inspire others to do the same.
As more and more people shift into higher levels of consciousness, all of humanity has the opportunity to also move into a new state of being. A new paradigm is upon us as we hold the Divine qualities of interacting with one another close to our hearts. The New Earth is one where we follow our calling, live in our truth, share our unique soul gifts, and connect with each other in a heart-centered way.
When we remember our Divine worth, we want to be who we truly are. Always. And in all areas of our life.